My husband and I have been together for 11 years and have been married 3. I just found out that he has been commnunicating with an ex-girlfriend. Before we got married she has always been an issue. She is going around telling everyone that they are getting back together. He admits to communicating with her but says that what she is saying is a lie and that he has never told her anything like that. Now, all of sudden, he sees that I want to separate wants to go to counseling. It is so easy to walk away. But others are saying stay and work it out. I am just so tired and I really don't have the energy anymore because, like I said, this is not the first time that she has been an issue.
What should I do?
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